This week I had the privilege to guest blog on the Word Weaver's website as part of their Valentine's Day series. Below is an excerpt with a link to the full blog.
Every year for a decade I left town on President’s Day weekend in mid-February. My excuse to colleagues was a chance to visit warmer places. In reality, I was escaping Valentine’s Day. As a single woman, that holiday is one of the most painful days of the year. My solution of traveling with a friend always let me feel special on an otherwise depressing day. Then came the year I couldn’t find anyone to go away with me. I had asked everyone I knew if they wanted to go on a weekend getaway, and no one said yes. I felt miserable because not only was I single, but I also felt like I had no friends. I started praying about it, and perceived that God wanted me to stay home. That stung. I protested that decision with God. How dare He take away my joy during a day of hurt?! It made no sense. So, I tried again and again until I had to admit defeat.
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3/14/2021 10:11:15 pm
A timely message, even though Valentine's Day is past, to remind us of God's great love, especially when we are lonely and broken hearted. I dreaded Valentine's Day this year because my sweetheart is gone, but like you, God and friends got me through.it.
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Joanna Eccles
3/20/2021 05:26:42 pm
I am so thankful that God provided good friends to get you through a hard day too. The Lord takes care of His children.
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3/14/2021 11:54:12 pm
Your heavenly sweetheart showed you how much He cared. You were overwhelmed with love because you obeyed His voice.
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Joanna Eccles
3/20/2021 05:25:30 pm
Obedience is hard. Sometimes, God shows me something good, but sometimes, the disappointments continue. I am glad God is trustworthy so whether I like His directions or not, I can always trust they are for my best.
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4/22/2021 11:45:49 am
I'm glad that you were blessed by so many wonderful friends. God is an amazing provider!
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AuthorJoanna Eccles has led Bible studies for over twenty years and completed the year-long C. S. Lewis Fellows Program. She is passionate about discipleship and helping people grow in Christ. Joanna enjoys coffee and reading, and currently lives in Florida. Categories
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